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Learn to not be the best!

In: My journey Monday Mar 10,2008

rock students(Photo credits,cbcastro)

For a few years, every year, I used to go with my band to a national rock/jazz/folk contest open to students, that takes place in Romania since 20 years or so. This show had actually 2 parts: one where various bands play in a contest and the second part where famous Romanian bands come and play as guests.

I enjoyed both, but to be honest, I enjoyed the first part more. First because I was in that contest and I was competing against the other bands. Second, because the famous bands were no news to me, while the underground bands were always a source of fresh music and musical styles.

I am not speaking about fresh songs, of course, every band had their own songs, new to me; not the songs were what interested me but the diversity of musical styles. It is amazing how creative underground musicians are! You could see there a lot of styles, from Led Zeppelin’s followers to death rock musicians but everyone of them had something that made their playing unique.

I loved that. I loved every minute of that show and the whole environment. We used to be hosted at a small hotel, a beautiful facility of the place where the show took place, a hotel just for us, musicians. I can not tell you what was there in the middle of the night…Guitars, keyboards, screaming voices outside the hall, a lot of drinking and smoking, girls and a lot of fun! The whole building was breathing rock!

I loved every second of this festival of rock, but what I loved the most was the fact that such an event showed me we were not alone on this planet and most of all, that we were not the best!

Playing for a lot of time in your rehearsal room can give you a distorted image of yourself and of your music. Exposure to various other musicians can correct you that image, without slapping you in the face. You just need to get in contact with the rest.

Having a concert is never the same. You play with other few bands, probably they also play things that you already know, so there is no big dare in this. But playing with 50 other bands, it is, trust me!

I remember that each year we came back from that contest I felt motivated to change something in our music, to come with better ideas and listen more underground music. I knew we were not alone and, again, we were not the best band in the world.

A very interesting part is the fact that you can compare what others are doing, it is kind of a workshop. I could see there, beside musical styles and performances, how one band can transmit such an explosion to public and how others just can’t. I could see how interesting one band composes, with strange rhythms, tensioned chords and bass lines and how straight forward other bands are playing the C-F-G thing. It was a thrill!

I could also see there a guitar player that, without being the fastest or the most technical one, had something in his guitar that made me listen and remember him even today. He played very easy, allowing his solo notes to be heard and understood, without crowding the solos with way too many notes. Very musical and technical at the same time, very good tone and feeling, he was the one that was as close as possible to being a professional guitar player, in my opinion.

We went there for 4 years in a row, if I well remember, for 3 years we didn’t do too much, while for the 4th year we were awarded the second place which was a very happy moment for us, back then since we knew we had it going with the band in that formula and with that musical style.

I am still sorry I can not participate to that contest anymore for the joy of it. Also, you can not be sure you would win anything, cause music there is always new and you can not tell what you will face there and how good your contestants would be.

Such shows are the best events a young musician could participate to. Such events show you where you are on your musical journey, show you what the world is playing around you and how you relate to the rest. And most of all, such events show that you are not the best, which in my opinion is always a good thing to know cause in artistic environments, this thing is often forgotten! Knowing you are not the best gives you an other perspective and allows you to listen to what the others are saying.

This is my personal view of it, if you don’t agree, well, let me know!




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4 Responses to “Learn to not be the best!”

  1. pilgrim
    March 11th, 2008 at 7:38 am

    And not everybody will think you’re the best if you win, and if you don’t win–some will still think you;re the best.

    As a guitar student I was in a few similar competitions. In most of them, the band I was in didn’t do well enough to win, but my last year–we did–we kicked major butt. Everybody seemed to think we would in. People I didn’t know were coming up to me and raving about our band. Even the band that won it all thought we’d win. Well as that last comment reveals—we didn’t win–we didn’t even finish second or third! We came in fourth. So I guess we blew everybody away except the judge. I was disappointed–I thought we’d place second at worst, but then I remembered the reactions of all the other people–so maybe we didn’t win it in the judge’s eyes–but we won it in the people’s hearts–and in some ways–that was better–and it did give me a boost.

    I used that lesson I learned when I taught guitar years later. When students were disappointed to lose or nervous that the judge wouldn’t like them, I reminded them that the results were one person’s opinion on that day, at that time. The next day someone else may have won. I did have students who won–and I celebrated with them. I did have bands that didn’t, that I felt the same way about as my band. But that experience helped–and it helped my students as well. Some came back the next year and played even better. I never got that chance as the year I learned the lesson was my last year to compete as a student.

  2. Ovidiu
    March 11th, 2008 at 8:30 am

    Well, I have been there. I remember, with an other band I used to play in, that when announcing the 4th place, it wasn’t us, so we must be better. The 3rd, nope! Well, it’s a good thing! The second? No, we are not on the second place! Wow, we must be on the first one!!! Well….no!We weren’t even noticed :-)

    Judges judge various things but you always need to learn to not always win and to accept that there is somebody better. I think that knowing that you are not the best and accepting this helps you as a musician cause you have a target to reach.

  3. Oliviagu
    March 24th, 2008 at 4:57 am

    i am gonna show this to my friend, dude

  4. Ovidiu
    March 24th, 2008 at 9:26 am

    OK,Oliviagu, please do, I would be glad other people read it and comment. Thanks!

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